.Monday, June 28, 2010 ' 10:06 PM♥.
On the bus, an old lady and her husband caught my eyes. They look rather old, with lots of wrinkles on their faces. Probably in the late 60s or 70s. Before alighting, the old woman stood up and tapped her card, followed by her husband's. She alighted the bus first, held on to his arms to ensure that he doesn't fall. I alighted at the same bus stop as them. The old man seemed to have some difficulty in walking. But he did not use an umbrella or any walking stick. I guessed the presence of his wife beside is his best walking stick. =) I was walking behind them. Their hands were clasped together and they started walking slowly. I felt that it is super duper SWEET. At such an old age, they are still dependent, loving and they still have each other. Perhaps, that is true love, which is something that i feel that it's realli realli realli magical...
For me, i had thot of this question on what on earth is true love. Perhaps, it is to love someone with all u haf.. someone who was once a stranger but somehow just entered into ur life.. and u began to like him.. someone whom u will be kpo to know what he is doing every moment.. who makes u feel sad when u haf to part for the day..makes u miss him when u dun get to see him for a few days and a week seems super duper long without ur presence..initally, it will be a honeymoon and whatever he does is super sweet to u.. but perhaps as the honeymoon period is gone for abt 3 mths, it would no longer be as sweet as before.. he may not be that concern abt u that much as b4.. and u will feel that the things he does arent sweet as it is not the 1st time that it is happening.. (for eg, the old couple mentioned above, i bet the 1st time when they held hands, it was sweet,but now, it becomes a normal routine..) but perhaps, it is something that one have to learn and the love gets stronger as the days passes.. though it is no longer the feeling of feeling scared when u 1st saw him, the heart racing when he 1st held ur hands, but he became someone whom u would want to care and shower him with love..the unconditional love that u are willing to give, accepting both his negative and positive traits.. i guessed confrontation is very important in order to remain in a good relationship. in this way, problems would then be solved and unhappiness can be prevented rather than feeling upset over things and hoping that it would be fine the next day... in this way, it would eventually lead to a huge mountain. confrontation allows them to iron out their feelings and solve it, thus leading to a better relationship. for a couple, even if they are separated, little things do bring back lots of memories of him..the feeling is realli weird.. something that i do not know how to describe..after 2 yrs, or even 3 yrs, they are still thinking of each other,(like in hai pai tian xin) i guess, perhaps that is true love..
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